10 questions you would never dare to ask an OnlyFans model

Which clients are you disgusted by? Do you consider it's an erotic adult work? Which clients do you feel sorry for?

If you want to earn quite a lot of money quite quickly, you could become an escort girl, for example. Another possibility is to create a profile on the website OnlyFans and offer various contents there for money.

For Bonny Lang, this way works quite well: she earns 50,000 to 70,000 dollars there every month. With dirty talk, rating penises and adult photos and videos. She works about four to eight hours a day, says the 26-year-old. Her customers, mainly men and many with girlfriends, come from all walks of life. But why do they sometimes pay several thousand dollars to Bonny, while the internet is full of free porn?

We have questions.

Do you consider your OnlyFans job as a sex work?

Bonny Lang: Yes, I would say that I am a kind of sex worker. I sell dirty talk on my platform and I know what happens to the pictures that men buy. But I guess I am a soft version of a sex worker.

About ten percent of the men actually don't want any pictures at all, but that I give them a dick rating. I get dick pics and write the men my detailed assessment of their penises - from the head to the balls - in exchange for a tip. These texts then end with wanking instructions. But of course most customers want pictures and videos of me.

How much did your most expensive content cost?

That was around 2,500 to 3,000 dollars. These daily mass messages all have the same price and therefore the same level of permissiveness. If customers want something even more exclusive in the chat, it costs accordingly more. It's like an internal level system. You can't just come in and say "I want to see the hottest content right now". The customers first have to build up a bond with me - also to protect myself. If I were to send all customers the most blatant content straight away, I would run the risk that this content would then be sold on. I work with a company that does nothing but delete my content on other websites.

Expensive products are mostly request videos, which are then two and a half to five minutes long. These are very individual wishes. Some want me to strip in the videos. In others, there are toys or ice cubes. Then there are videos where I massage myself with oil. These are the videos that are in the three-digit range. There are also videos in the four-digit range, but I don't want to reveal what exactly I do there.

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What is the difference for you between OnlyFans and shooting porn?

Apart from the fact that I'm not filmed having sex, I can work in a much more self-determined way. I don't have a boss. There is no one above me telling me what to do. I can set my own limits, I set my own prices, I can freely divide up my tasks. I decide which clients I accept and which I do not. I also simply offer a different service: I am always available and the girl next door, so to speak. Classic porn stars are much further away, you can't just contact them.

What do you do when users fall in love with you?

I haven't had any problems with that so far. This may sound stupid, but I also offer a service with a lot of closeness. Feelings can arise from time to time. Because everything takes place online, I have a certain protection.

How often do you get harassed by users?

I don't get harassed at all in the real world. But I have a completely different definition of harassment because I am an erotic model. I am prepared to receive a lot of lewd remarks. I don't see that as harassment, but I think that they could become future clients. In general, however, I also get a lot of hate. I get messages every day from men who think I'm terrible. Especially on TikTok it gets very out of hand. They write "Dad is proud of you", "If you can't do anything, you do this", "You're worthless", "You're stupid", "If you have nothing in your head, you have it in your breasts", "Whore". I have also read that it would have been better if I had been aborted. Or even that I would be doing society a favour if I died.

"I'm a public figure, so unfortunately such hostility is part of the onlyfans adult job.."

Which clients disgust you?

I don't want to say disgusting directly, but I have a client who loved to beat up his girlfriend. He then bought voicemails from me where I put his girlfriend down. I also sold him underwear for her to wear. I thought that was pretty crass and that's where even I reach my limits. Apart from that, there have of course been customers who had requests that had to do with faeces - I don't do that. I find that really disgusting. Some customers also want me to do their fingernails and toenails. But disgust and fetish are in the eye of the beholder and as long as everything is legal, I think it's okay.

How often do you have to be friendly to customers even though you find them unsympathetic or perhaps even repulsive?

That happens from time to time. With maybe 20 per cent of my customers, I have to make an effort to be friendly. If, for example, these clients are into humiliating me during dirty talk, I have to stay in my role, of course, even though I don't really like it as a private person.

After all, that's what he paid me for.

Which clients do you feel sorry for?

I don't only have customers who don't experience closeness in normal life. It's a mixed audience. There are certain people who need a little closeness and have a hard time with women or are very shy. But then I don't feel sorry for the customers, I'm happy that I can give them something they need. They are always very happy, they are very grateful people. They enjoy it when a woman they find very attractive gives them attention - without them having to show themselves and can remain anonymous.

What would your ten-year-old self say about your job?

I think my ten-year-old self would be quite impressed by all that I have achieved: My own company, two employees I've hired, a nice flat. But I don't think I would have really understood what I was doing when I was ten either. My 13-year-old self would perhaps be a bit sceptical and ask myself whether this is really the right thing for me.

What content from the past would you no longer do today?

Back then I did soft content and now I dare to do much more. I'm glad that I'm more confident in front of the camera now.