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A sugarbaby's experience with adultworks: It can destroy you mentally if you meet the wrong person for erotic job

A sugarbaby's experience with adultworks:

Sugarbabies share their experiences from their erotic job

A young woman openly shared her experiences of the sugarbaby lifestyle. While she believes there are many downsides to this lifestyle, one of her colleagues describes her years as a sugar baby as the most fun of her life.

The "sugar baby" role has long been popular among young people, especially university students, which essentially means providing pleasant company for money to older, wealthy men.

The term "pleasant company" includes dining and conversation, but it often includes sexual services.

Although the sugar baby lifestyle is not without its downsides, it is a well-paying erotic job

Many people use it to cover university tuition or pay for their housing, and there are also stories where someone would travel around the world without spending anything.

We often hear that compulsion drives people to reckless decisions, but is the situation really that simple?

There are young girls and college students who need extra income and feel that there is no other alternative, but there are also those who choose this sexy job purely for convenience.

But what are the potential negative aspects of such an opportunity to earn money by looking for financial support?

A girl who chose to remain anonymous has now decided to share her experience with the Reddit community and dispel misconceptions about this erotic job.

Money isn't everything: there are many potential downsides to being a sugar baby

Some people focus on the "money-making" aspect and dream of becoming rich: with many material possessions, luxurious clothes, and expensive trips.

However, according to the speaker's experience, it is easier and more frequent to meet psychopaths during the sugar baby lifestyle than during traditional dating.

There is also the risk of a sugar baby falling for a sugar daddy who already has a wife and children.

Such secret relationships often lead to hurt feelings and do not have a good outcome, as one party will definitely be hurt.

"It can completely destroy you mentally if you meet the wrong person, for example, someone who takes you for a prostitute. Anyway, in some ways you are, I never wanted to call it something else, but my daddies didn't treat me like that. The main focus was not on sex, but I think this was just my luck," she wrote, and then she also said that easy money can start a person down the slope, as many sugar babies turned to escort jobs and became burnt-out escort girls.

If you do something wrong and it becomes known in your circle of friends or in your family, you will carry the badge for the rest of your life. And if you keep the secret, it will eat you up too,

she added.

Sugar baby looking for financial support

A sugar daddy paid 1400 EUR for a meeting

Many people may wonder how to imagine such an unusual meeting, but now we have an answer to that as well.

According to the girl, it is just like a Tinder date, where the purpose of the meeting is clearly to have sex, and the difference is that they are paid for it in case of the sexjob.

At the same time, whether one gets into good or bad company is always arbitrary.

"After dinner, if you like it, then you can go to the hotel or your apartment."

If there is sex, they discreetly leave afterwards, but I could always stay until morning, everything was paid for.

"They often stayed to talk with me because they were interested in my personality", said the former sugar baby.

She added that she usually received 500 EUR for an average meeting, but she also had a sugar daddy who paid about 1400 EUR for her company.

In this manner, sugar dating is very similar to escort jobs too, since escorts also provide their company for men!

A relationship involving financial support is different for everyone

As with many other things, those affected handle and process this special support relationship in different ways: some are better able to understand and tolerate what happened, while others have a harder time handling and carrying the experience.

In any case, such a connection will certainly leave a mark on their lives.

Speaking on Reddit, the girl, although she is handling the situation with confidence, admits that there may be long-term consequences to her adult work that may not appear until years or decades later.

Despite the setbacks, several people said that they keep this period as a positive experience.

Sugarbabies do erotic jobs not only in the United Kingdom, but all over the world, and many of them openly talk about their experiences when they were looking for a sponsor.

For example, 27-year-old Palmer Kelly, who chose this lifestyle at the age of 19 due to problems making ends meet, started looking for financial support.

She remembers this time positively and says it was one of the most fun trips of her life.

You can read more about Palmer Kelly's story here:

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However, this is not the only case of sugar dating:

I've been a sugarbaby for about four years and during that time my sugardaddy bought me a car and paid for my degree.

"He treats me kindly and is always generous when it comes to allowances or gifts", wrote a Quora user.

Sugarbabies share many such experiences about their erotic jobs, which can give us some food for thought.

It is also noteworthy that there are many comments where similarly young women encourage other girls to dare to venture into this seemingly privileged life offered by adultworks.


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