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2018-07-21
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Having a phone sex job in the 21th Century... What is cybersex?

Lily, a phone sex operator shared with us her story about how she started her first phone sex job, what this erotic job actually means and what type of skills you need to have in order to be a successful phone sex operator.

Cyber or phone sex job involves sex talk on the phone, texting on the phone or messaging over the internet. In cybersex, phone sex operators use their words to create feelings, connection and fantasies and most importantly, sexual connections with the customers.

I moved to London "to be famous"...

I was studying to became an actress. I was really confident of my abilities and very bold so one day I decided that there is no need for me to finish school. I dropped out of college and moved to London because I wanted to show the world a talent it had never seen before.

My confidence slowly started to fade when I realized that becoming a successful actress in London is not as easy as my 20 year old mind thought it would be... Not having any kind of income scared me, so at this point I was ready to try any kind of job.

My roommate, who was working as an escort at that time, recommended me to search on Red-Life, because of the professional and trustful ads. Sceptical, but desperate, as I was scrolling on Red Life I saw a phone sex job and without thinking, I applied to it and set up an interview to do phone sex.

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It turned out I was a natural at having cybersex on the phone...

Still, phone sex jobs require a lot more than that. It's all about improvisation, you need to get into your costumers mind and say what they want to hear. This requires interest in this type of erotic job and willingness to learn.



I kept my first client on the phone for 12 minutes. My manager congratulated me after the ninth minute.

I decided to stick around and see where this road would take me. After a few weeks as a phone sex operator, I had repeat customers. Ironic, but after clients started to know me, we spent more than 75% of our time not speaking in a sexual way.

This type of erotic job is kind of a therapy for some people. Some reached out because they were feeling lonely, frustrated, ashamed, afraid or even curious. Lily shares how she found out that intuitive questions can help someone to release themselves, both physically and emotionally.

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So what are the qualities of a good phone sex operator?

I believe this erotic job is definitely not for everyone. As I said, you have to have a right attitude and a tough character. It's not always easy, sometimes you might feel vulnerable or worthless, but at the end of day, you can't let the words of strangers affect you.

Once you start to work, you have to detach yourself from your problems, have a very positive attitude and have fun. I always find it funny when guys tell me what they would like to do to me and how they genuinely believe that a girl will orgasm after a few seconds of listening to him. This only proves how those who call us don't know women at all...

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The erotic adult work is a job, that only a 18+ person can do, because it includes sexual services and in return, the client pays money or buy expensive gifts. The sexworker's service can include almost anything, even adult job without sex eg. fetish jobs, femdom, massage job, hostess job, webcam job or dancing, but the choice is always yours, nobody can force you to do sexwork. Usually we distinguish between incall and outcall erotic jobs, so the sexworker can work in a studio, private salon or brothel, or it can be outcall, so they meet somewhere with the guest, that can be a hotel, the client's house or anywhere else.. And also it doesn't matter if you are boy or girl or trans or even your sexual orientation, because any adult person can be an escort or a sexworker.

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The "How do i get started as an escort?" is one of the most common question, because who doesn't want to know, how they can become a professional escort in a short time? As you can know, the escorts earn a lot, and they live a luxurious life, and you can have it also, if you find your dream escort job on Red-Life. You just have to apply for an escort job, and the dream can come true, as you learn how to act and behave like a professional. As a beginner, you can apply for the most escort agencies, because they are happy to teach you every little detail, to be the best. Don't be afraid, nobody born as a professional escort, you can learn everything and have fun with a lot of money at the same time.

Escort job means, that you escort someone, so they pay for your company and time, nothing else. Or course, if the chemistry is working, it can be lot more, but only if both of you are agreed. A successful escort know how to behave in every situation, and can be a loving girlfriend and a wild porn star at the same time. The client pays for entertainment, but also for a listening partner, that's why the GFE (girlfriend experience) is so popular. If you have few regulars, who pays for your time often, then you can feel yourself as a sugarbaby, but normally it's two different type of adult job.

If you already decided that you want to have adult job in UK, then you have to find on Red-Life the most suitable advertisement for you to become a sex worker. To be a sex worker means a lot, you can choose from plenty of adult job offers, depending on which kind of sex work would you like ho have, and where, because then you have the possibility to travel the world and earn a lot of money. You can be an escort, but also a porn star, but if you want something sensual and discreet, then you can find a lot of erotic massage job also. 

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