Coming clean and revealing to your family that you have an adult video porn job

Bella, an active porn star in adult movies reveals a life event that changed her life forever - revealing that she has an adult video porn job to her family and friends.

I expected that some people I know would hate me, but I never expected that some would even post details about my family on the internet because of me.

I moved to London to experiment

Originated from a small town in the United Kingdom, where most of the people are very religious, Bella shares that her parents were always over protective of her. They didn't let her to parties or to have a boyfriend, because they were afraid that she would become a sinner.

Wanting a whole different life and eager to experiment, Bella moved to London and started to study at a very prestigious school. It wasn't long until she started to go to parties, drink, experiment and do everything she wished for. But money was tight...

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I constantly lied to my parents that I have to buy books, because I desperately needed the money. When they told me they won't send my anymore, I started to look for a part time job, but the problem was that I had no work experience and to be honest...I couldn't imagine myself doing something that doesn't make me excited.

I wanted a job that would pay me well for something I enjoy doing.

I choose the erotic work that fitted my current needs

I found on Red-Life a bunch of interesting ads - jobs that offer a lot of money for basically what I was doing for almost free after parties. It took me a whole night, but I've decided to try out as a porn actress.

I was extremely nervous during the first shooting, but since everyone was so nice and patient with me - I've decided to do a few movies during my studies and then quit. But after I graduated and got my first job, my salary was...not motivating at all.

I decided to continue my porn job career, but I figured that if I wanted to do it on long term, I had to come clean in front of the people I love - my family and my friends.

Telling a secret was not as easy and deliberating as I thought it would be

As normal, my parents freaked out but I felt that if I gave them enough time, they would eventually understand me. Still, they made me promise I would never tell anyone from our town and I promised, but kept it only for a few hours and told my friends that I am a porn star.

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They seemed like they're totally fine with it...until we went to a party on the next day, one of them got drunk and told everybody about my appearances in porn films.

From that point on, every aspect of my life became public. People were tweeting me nasty things. It was like every single day things get worse, so one day I decided to contact the police about the threats and it seemed like I've silenced people with this step.

I want to break down barriers and change peoples views on sex-work. I am not ashamed of my adult job and I will work as a porn star as long as I can. 

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