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2025-01-13
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Sugarbaby secrets: 10+1 true stories from the world of erotic adult jobs

Sugarbaby secrets: 10+1 true stories

10+1 sugar babies tell true stories about their erotic adult jobs

You might think that a sugar baby's life is all about luxury, lavish gifts, and comfort - but in reality, the support isn't always as glamorous as it might seem at first.

Although many may envy the lifestyle of a sugar baby, there are often hidden challenges behind the erotic adult job that are not always visible from the outside.

Besides money and glamour, important things often can't be bought!



Age affects a sugar baby's erotic adult job

"I was living as a sugar baby in my twenties and immersed myself in a world where everything was easy. I quickly got used to being able to buy whatever I wanted, so I didn't care about money.

I lived in a premium housing estate and only bought designer things in my free time.

Then, when I turned 30, clients didn't come looking as often.

The bitter realization that I could no longer compete with the younger sugar babies came quickly. Of course, it wasn't surprising, but who would have thought that things could end when you had everything?

I didn't, and now I'm living in a small apartment and selling clothes and bags online to make ends meet."

Burnout due to adult work

“The first few years were amazing, I felt like everything was at my feet.

Then the burnout came, and since then I've been completely disillusioned with men.

Since I've 'retired' from the adult industry, there's no way I'm going to date again, start a relationship, or anything related to men."

For many girls, adult work becomes too much at a certain point and they feel they need to change direction – and that's not necessarily a bad thing.

In a safe erotic career, it is ideal for the escort girl or sugar baby to plan how she wants to exit the world of sex work.

That way, even burnout won't be such a big problem.

Intoxicated while doing erotic adult jobs

“No one mentions that it’s not always easy to approach an old, overweight, or bald man with enthusiasm.

There was a sugar daddy whose breath was so bad that no amount of menthol chewing gum helped.

Sometimes I would have a drink to make the meeting more pleasant.

I eventually got to the point where I was drinking before almost every sugar daddy date, and within a few years I was struggling with alcohol problems."

Sugar baby on a date

Some sugar babies received more than just nice gifts

“I contracted a sexually transmitted disease that has caused serious health problems ever since, and in retrospect, it wasn’t worth it at all.”

That's why almost all guides mention how important protection is when someone decides to do sex work.

Proper condoms and regular medical checkups not only protect your health, but can also help you avoid long-term consequences.

Despite all this, many people tend to ignore these warnings in the pursuit of quick money, which can ultimately come at a heavy price.

Plastic surgeries

“My sugar daddy didn’t like my nose and thought my breasts were small. He financed the surgeries and at the time I thought I was lucky to have the support.

But now I hate my new, perfect nose and my overly large breasts.

I had no problems with my face or body, but I let them talk me into making changes, and now I really regret it."

Erotic adult job with drugs

"A sugar daddy pays well, but expects a lot in return. Including sex toys that are uncomfortable, humiliating, or painful.

I couldn't always do this sober, so that's why I turned to drugs. A little powder or something else, and it got easier.

However, this habit quickly had serious consequences.

After five years, I reached the point where I could get through a normal weekday only with drugs, otherwise I wouldn't have been able to get out of bed.

I'm clean now, but I've been through three rehabs and I still crave the drug. I fight every day not to relapse, and the saying is true: an addict is always an addict.

So, overall, the sugarbaby lifestyle wasn't worth it for me.”

Sugar baby on luxurious trip

Sugarbaby past: can you really leave it behind?

“Years after I ‘retired,’ I met the man I thought would be my life partner.

We were already planning the wedding when he unexpectedly asked if I used to be a sugarbaby.

It turned out that a friend of his, who is one of my former sugardaddy's business partners, had told him about my past.

My partner's values ​​didn't fit with this and he decided to leave me. I was completely devastated and haven't been able to find my emotional balance since."

Are emotions and adult work compatible?

“I've only had one sugar daddy in my entire life – an older, charming man who I fell completely in love with.

He was a family man and for years he had me convinced that he would get a divorce after his children graduated.

I naively waited for him for eight years, hoping for a future together.

Finally, I gave him an ultimatum, but he refused to leave his wife, so we said goodbye.

Looking back, it wasn't worth it: I wasted years on it, and in the end it just broke my heart."

Appearance matters a lot in sugar dating

"As the years passed and I got out of my twenties, taking care of my appearance took up more and more time and money."

Not only were nails, hair extensions, eyelashes, and cosmetic treatments a regular expense, but I also resorted to aesthetic procedures more and more often.

Lip fillers, botox, facial fillers, acid peels, laser treatments, body treatments – by the end, I was spending serious amounts of money on them every month.

Finally, my friends pointed out to me that I was starting to look like a wax figure.

It was only years later – looking back at my photos from that time – that I began to see that I had made a monster out of myself because of the pressure to stay young.”

Of course, this is not just a problem that arises in the case of sugar babies, as we can encounter it in many types of adult jobs.

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Disowned due to sex work

"I told my family that I had a well-paying job at a multinational company in the capital, but eventually the truth about my erotic adult work came out.

My rural, conservative parents couldn't accept me doing sexy jobs and disowned me out of shame.

Since then, only one cousin has kept in touch with me, but she also suggested that I never return to my village.

I miss my family a lot. My dream was that when I saved enough money, I would buy a small house in my hometown, but that has now been shattered."

Badmouthing sugar babies

“There was a man who demanded things that were unacceptable to me, so he gave me a bad reputation out of revenge.

As a result, all (higher-ranking) clients distanced themselves from me.

That's when I realized how small this country is."

Source: Bien.

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